To the days of picking raspberries.......

 Today I learned one of my oldest friends died of a heart attack at the age of 33. He leaves behind two adorable little girls. The shock is still setting in. I have had friends die in accidents or from having a serious illness, but it never crossed my mind someone could have a heart attack so young. I hear about it happening, but I never thought it would happen to someone in my life.I feel so young and full of life and I look forward to a long and bright future with my family. Realizing that could be swept away in an instant is disheartening.
I was literally in diapers with this friend. Our moms were friends. We rode the bus to kindergarten together. We picked raspberries on the property by his house. He was the funny one in our group. I remember thinking he resembled Donahue on that TV show from the 80's. I remember one of my best friends asking me to ask him to be her boyfriend. He brought smiles to all our faces.
When we are young we have nothing but hope for the future. We don't think of the possibility we may only have a short time on this earth. We can't fathom the idea we will leave behind loves ones in an instant.
Truth be told, this has been the worst week I have had in a long time. This news just about broke me. But, as sad as I feel I can't help but think of his sweet girls. I am so grateful to know that this life is not the end. In a couple of weeks, it will have been eleven years since I lost my mom. It was devastating watching her die, but I am grateful I at least had the opportunity to say goodbye. I was able to feel closure.
My heart goes out to his family. Loss is never easy. Moving on is impossible and for that I am actually grateful. If we carry a piece of them with us then their legacy lives on.
Here's to you old buddy. I will think of you whenever I see raspberries and remember how we would eat them all while we were supposed to be picking them for your parents. lol

The truth about Mother Goose.

Last night, while reading Mother Goose nursery rhymes Tracy commented, "Mother Goose sounds drunk to me." He was so serious about it!

 I don't know where he gets his knowledge of how someone acts when drunk, but I have to agree with him. Most nursery rhymes are dark and grammatically poor. For instance, "and down he RUN"????Seriously? I have a pet peeve about grammar as it is, but how does one get published with that? Plus, a cradle falling out of a tree? Kids singing and dancing about the plague? 

I suppose I should give MG a little slack. She did, afterall, raise a litter of kids in a shoe. I would probably hit the bottle too. JK Okay, enough ranting. As much as they annoy me, we often read these macabre stories at bedtime. I admit I enjoy a little "pat-a-cake" and "this little piggy". But, overall I think I will stick to Dr. Seuss and The Moon Shines Down. 

2012 Interview with the Kids.

On my best friend's blog she had posted interviews with her daughters and I thought it was so cute I had to copy the idea. What better way to capture who they are and what they want to be at this point in their lives than to simply ASK THEM? I have left answers UNEDITED! Here goes.....

HOW OLD ARE YOU?

Tracy: "Seven. What are you doing?"

Everett: "Mommy I'm five. Why do you ask?"

Summer: "Three and a HALF!"

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE BOOK?

Tracy: "Books about Army and Aircraft Carriers."

Everett: "Transformer."

Summer:" Beauty and the Beast."

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE MOVIE?

Tracy: "Cars 2."

Everett: "Despicable Me."

Summer: "All of the Princess movies."

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE TV SHOW?
Tracy: "Mighty Machines."
Everett: "Dinosaur Train."
Summer: "Ooooh. Strawberry Shortcake and Angelina Ballerina."

WHO IS YOUR BEST FRIEND?

Tracy: "Max."

Everett: "Sam and Dominic."

Summer:" Sam likes me. He goes to Challenger too." (Note to self: check out this Sam fellow. He is a different Sam than Ev's friend.) 

DO YOU HAVE A BOY/GIRLFRIEND?

Tracy: "Noel." (She was in his class last year. She is a cute blond with big blue eyes. She is really sweet too. When Tracy first told me they were dating a year ago I asked what that meant. He said it means you like each other. After witnessing what the 5th and 6th graders do when they are "going out" I was relieved!)

Everett: "Uh uh."

Summer: "Milo". They have in fact been dating for over a year now. He is a cute kid. We approve. ;)

WHAT DO YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP?

Tracy: "Lego Engineer."

Everett: "Mad Scientist hahahahaha!"

Summer: "Princess."

WHERE DO YOU WANT TO GO TO COLLEGE?

Tracy: "University of Utah."

Everett: "BYU" (He always chooses the opposite of what he thinks we want him to say thinking he will cause a commotion. Sorry buddy. I don't care WHERE you go to school.)

Summer: "I don't WANT to go to college!!!" (Um, this answer WILL be changing in years to come!)

WHERE IS YOUR FAVORITE PLACE TO VISIT?

Tracy: "Places where there is water. Then I can boogie board."

Everett: "Arizona."

Summer: "The beach." (That's my girl!)

IF YOU COULD GO ANYWHERE, WHERE WOULD YOU CHOOSE?

Tracy: "Lego Land and the Grand Canyon."

Everett: "Disney land and Lego land."

Summer: "Another Disney cruise."

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE THING TO PLAY?

Tracy: "Legos."

Everett: "Legos".

Summer:" Sleeping Beauty dress-up."

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE TOY?

Tracy: "Legos."

Everett: "Batman toys."

Summer: "I like all of my toys!"

WHO IS YOUR FAVORITE MUSICIAN/BAND?

Tracy:" Bruno Mars and Michael Jackson."

Everett:" Michael Jackson."
Summer: "Taylor Swift, Justin Beiber and Avril Lavigne."

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SONG?
Tracy: "Going off the rails on a crazy train." Ozzy Osborne
Everett: "I'm Bad." Michael Jackson
Summer: "Hey, hey, you, you, I don't like your girlfriend." Avril Lavigne

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE THING TO DO WITH MOM?

Tracy: "Play legos and do crafts."

Everett: "Go to the library."

Summer: "Play games."

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE THING TO DO WITH DAD?

Tracy: "Play legos."

Everett: "Get prizes when he comes back from out of town."

Summer: "Go potty!!!!!" No joke! This was her answer. HAHAHA!

*Mike and I discovered the sentimentality of Summer's comment this week. We went our to dinner twice and BOTH times Mike took her to the bathroom she had to poop. She was in there for at least 15 minutes each time. She would say, "I have six more poops" or something along those lines. Ahhh. My little princess. 

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SCRIPTURE STORY?

Tracy: "Alma the Younger."

Everett: "Alma."

Summer: "Baby Jesus."

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE FOOD?

Tracy: "Quesadillas, tostadas and nachos."

Everett: "Macaroni and pancakes." 

Summer: "Hot dogs."

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE FRUIT/VEGETABLE?
Tracy: "Apples and carrots."
Everett: "Clementines, bananas and broccoli. I like edamame too."
Summer: "Clementines, grapes and edamames too."

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE ANIMAL?

Tracy: "Crocodiles, alligators, wild life animals and iguanas and lizards and snakes."

Everett: "Every animal, but I like T-Rex's the most cuz they can eat stuff. I like turtles too."

Summer: "Elephant!"

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE CAR?

Tracy: "Ferrari, hot rods, sports cars, and police cars."

Everett: "Hot Rod."

Summer:" Dune Buggy."

WHAT THEME DO YOU WANT FOR YOUR NEXT BIRTHDAY PARTY?

Tracy: "Transformers again."

Everett: "Hot Rod."

Summer: "Rapunzel".

WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR YOUR NEXT BIRTHDAY?
Tracy: "More legos."
Everett: "I want one of those Fin boats where when Fin from Cars 2 jumps onto the bad boat and he's on the side and he goes to get the bad guys. You can get it at Target."
Summer: "Um, uh, a monkey stuffed animal. I'm getting tired of telling you things." LOL

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SPORT?
Tracy: "Basketball."
Everett: "I like a lot of sports but mostly I like baseball."
Summer:"Basketball".

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE SUBJECT IN SCHOOL?

Tracy: :Science and math and reading."

Everett: "Science". (Hence, wanting to be a mad scientist I suppose.)

Summer: "AIRPLANES!!!" (They just finished a section on transportation.)

WHAT CAN'T YOU SLEEP WITHOUT?

Tracy: "All of my stuffed animals and blankies."

Everett: "My teddy and my aliens and my space blankie."

Summer: " My purple blank." (translation=blanket)

WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE MEMORY FROM 2011?

Tracy: "Skiing."

Everett: "Cruise."

Summer: "Cruise!"

WHAT DO YOU LOOK FORWARD TO IN 2012?

Tracy: "Going skiing again."

Everett: "Going to be an East Midvale Eagle."

Summer: "Looking for dinosaur bones". (Not sure where that came from but I will have to keep on eye on the sandbox.)

Well, there you have it. The Bollinger legacy in the works. I can't wait to ask again next year.

I want a hip hop hippopotamus for Christmas.

I love this part of my life partly because I enjoy being a "soccer mom". I love going to my children's sports games, recitals and school events. On December 14, I attended the dance recital of Trace and Summy. Summer began a jazz/ballet class in August and Tracy a hip-hop one. They both worked very hard and had a FUN, FUN, FUN time at class as well as during their performances.

I have to give props to Tracy's instructor, Brandon. Managing seven rumbustious, hyper little boys was no small feat! The class consists of a half hour of tumbling and another half hour of learning routines. We had a few.....ehm....missteps along the way. Let's just say Tracy was a little TOO rowdy on more than one occasion and sat in the corner for part of the class. I bring this up because as time has passed I have seen much growth in Trace. He has learned to control himself (most of the time) and is often the teacher's assistant during class.

Summer's teacher, Miss Tami is adorable and so sweet with all of the little girls. Summer behavior is completely OPPOSITE her brother's. She takes it so seriously I keep asking her if she is enjoying herself. When Miss Tami does kicks across the floor and asks the girls to follow, most of them give up half way and start playing with each other's skirts. Not Summer! With a serious look on her face she kicks her little legs the whoooooole distance. At the end of class she is smiling and jumping around and chatting with her friends. Maybe I am just used to rowdy boys and I assume because she isn't yelling and causing chaos she isn't having fun.

Summer's class was one of the studios selections for the Festival of Trees. She was LITERALLY jumping for joy at the chance to perform. I will have to post the video. She was not only dancing her little heart out, she was singing the words! We didn't know what to expect when she got up there on that stage. Little did we know we have a little diva on our hands. She had facial expressions and everything!!! It was awesome.

It has been an exciting few months of dance and I look forward to the next recital come spring. Everett has just joined Tracy's Hip Hop class. So far, so good. I am just pleased my kids have found something active that brings them so much joy.

Sun Beam

Who better to become a Sun Beam than the little lady with a name literally paying homage to the sun? Yes, our little Summer is now officially in primary!!! I didn't even realize it until her cute new teacher called to get some information for a spotlight. I think I am in denial my kids are growing up as quickly as they are. Sigh.... I am so proud of our little ray of sunshine. That pretty much sums her up. She is so sweet and loving to all. When I ask her why she is so sweet, or beautiful, or smart etc. her simple reply is always, "Jesus did it."